A vibrator is an excellent way to liven things up when you’re flying solo, but it can also be a memorable guest star during partner sex.
You might feel reluctant to bring up the idea with your partner for fear it might imply that they aren’t satisfying you in the bedroom. But if you frame it as trying something new and exciting that can enhance what you’re both doing, it can be a less intimidating prospect. Here’s how to use a vibrator with your partner.
Find your sweet spot.
Our erogenous zones respond differently to stimulation, so what might work for one person may not do anything for someone else. That’s where a vibrator can help. Explore one another’s body by applying vibration in light circles to different areas like the neck, nipples, inner thigh, behind the ear, back of the knee, the testicles, shaft, perineum — even the armpit, scalp and hands.
Alternate between your mouth and your vibrator.
Once you’ve identified the spot on your partner’s body that really gets them going, alternate between using the vibrator and the warmth of your mouth and tongue for an extra-sensory experience.
Use it to enhance oral sex.
If you’re going down on someone with a penis, press the vibrator against your cheek for some extra stimulation. During cunnilingus, you can insert the vibrator into the vagina to up your game even more.
Give certain positions a boost.
For penis-vagina intercourse, some positions — like reverse cowgirl or spooning — can make clitoral stimulation more difficult, so using a vibrator can help with that.
Read more about using a vibrator with a partner.
Originally published at https://getmaude.com.
